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CansaFis Foote's avatar

“Grace is a perspective, too. It’s like putting on special glasses that soften the world, allowing us to see it through gentler eyes.” really stood out to me - great reminder that we can allow ourselves to have and to give grace. For those who don’t wear glasses all I can say is I can’t see without them, but also that I often forget that I am wearing them.

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

I think of you as someone whose grace glasses are always on. Thank you.

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Brigitte Kratz's avatar

Hi Jeff, what a beautiful meditation on grace, and one I will likely return to in the future. Loved especially this:

"More than anything, grace is an appreciation of life. It’s a deep exhale that says: I’m lucky to be alive and grateful for the way my life has come together — the good, bad, and ugly. Like snow, it hushes the world, softens sharp edges, and creates a serene glow."

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

Thanks!

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Kryptogal (Kate, if you like)'s avatar

Beautiful, thank you.

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ARC's avatar

This was my favorite so far. Either this one or the almost 50 one or the JFK one. Made it easy to really connect with you on a deeper level.

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

thanks andrew! appreciate your nudge to allow readers to connect. tryin'

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ARC's avatar

safer but less timeless content

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Bo's avatar

I like the comparison of grace to snow. It also works for me as a symbol of a kind of ego death, you have to get past your own ego to give or receive grace sometimes.

Really beautiful piece Jeff, thanks for sharing.

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

Thanks Bo, good point about ego death.

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Rife's avatar

Gracefully beautiful

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

thanks Rife!

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Janell's avatar

I enjoyed this a lot, Jeff. Your perspective on things always makes me think. I appreciate your grace for the faith traditions that you and I both grew up in and that I still follow. This is such a small thing in this essay, but I do think the Church is better today about addressing the ugly than they used to be. Here's a link to the Church's website about the Mountain Meadows Massacre. I do think there is a desire to be more open about the history. Progress, right?

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/history/topics/mountain-meadows-massacre?lang=eng

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

Hi Janell, Thanks for pointing this out and sharing the link. I should probably give the church more credit for integrating this history. I didn't see any discussion of the massacre or Utah Wars at the Pioneer Museum, but I didn't explore the church history museums, which may have more info.

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Janell's avatar

That is interesting. I haven't been to any of the museums in a really long time.

I am sorry for the loss of your brother. I should have said that immediately. Glad to reconnect with you.

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